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Research Reveals Connection Between Partner's Gender and Women's Orgasm Expectations

Author: Society for Personality and Social Psychology
Author Contact: spsp.org
Published: 4th Apr 2024
Peer-Reviewed Publication: Yes
Additional References: Sexuality Publications

Summary: Study investigates factors influencing orgasm rates for women across sexual orientations.


Main Document

A new study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science investigated the factors influencing orgasm rates for women across sexual orientations. The researchers report that partner gender plays a significant role in how women approach sex. and their likelihood of reaching orgasm.

Understanding the Orgasm Gap

Previous research has established the existence of an "orgasm gap," where cisgender women are less likely to achieve orgasm during partnered sex compared to cisgender men. This new study delves deeper, investigating how a partner's gender shapes women's expectations and ultimately, their pursuit of orgasm.

Key Findings

The study found in two samples that:

Implications and Next Steps

These findings suggest that dominant sexual scripts, which vary based on partner gender, may contribute to the orgasm gap by shaping women's expectations and behaviors during sex.

Lead author Kate Dickman, a recent graduate of Rutgers University, emphasizes the practical implications:

"If women, or men partnered with women, want to increase their own or their partners' orgasm, they should create an environment that encourages orgasm pursuit through diverse sex acts, particularly those involving clitoral stimulation."

Co-author Grace Wetzel, of Rutgers University, highlights the broader context:

"This research contributes to understanding gender disparities and inequities. It also sheds light on why the orgasm gap exists - specifically, how different expectations for sex with men and women can explain these differences."

Beyond the Orgasm Gap

Wetzel notes that the results could be interpreted to mean that sex with men is intrinsically worse than sex with women, but this is not necessarily the case.

"The problem is not inherent to men or to being heterosexual, but to the dominant sexual scripts associated with heterosexual sex. Sexual scripts are flexible and can be changed," Wetzel explains.

While acknowledging the importance of addressing the orgasm gap, Dickman concludes:

"This study is just one piece of a larger conversation about gender disparities. Orgasm is just one aspect of sexual satisfaction, and this research should not be misinterpreted as suggesting that orgasm is the sole measure of a fulfilling sexual experience."

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• (APA): Society for Personality and Social Psychology. (2024, April 4). Research Reveals Connection Between Partner's Gender and Women's Orgasm Expectations. SexualDiversity.org. Retrieved May 27, 2024 from www.sexualdiversity.org/sexuality/1199.php


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